A age gap dating advice blog that provides valuable tips when dating older men and younger women. Thought-provoking relationship tips for older men seeking to date younger women. Please be advised to seek a professional for serious issues. Contributors are not all licensed or trained in relationship counseling. This blog is not for people under the age of 18.
Monday
Sunday
Having Sex with Younger or Older Partner Just Because...
The couple was head over heels in love with one another when they first met some years ago, but now, not so much. You see, she experienced far too many disappointing moments with the man who she calls, "Sugar Daddy." She had hoped that maybe the relationship would have matured by now. But he and she aren't interested in anything more than sex these days.
What appeared to be so right, ended up so wrong when the young woman finally realized she bit more off than she could chew by involving herself with an older man decades older than she. He too, thought that being with his younger partner was a bit too much for him to handle mentally and physically, yet he pressed on with the relationship anyway.
Now the pair are nothing more than periodic sex partners with very few common interests. They just don't have that "spark" for one another anymore--they have grown apart. Yet, the sex keeps them connected, at least for the time being, until one or both insults the other in a dispute, then off they go taking a sabbatical away from one another in minds and sometimes with feet too--that is until "missing you" feelings draw them back together again. On the outside looking in, witnesses might describe the couple as "pathetic, weak, dysfunctional..." but it works for them now.
If your relationship with an older or younger partner is somewhat like what has been described, then you just might want to begin to emotionally and physically set yourself free if the situation is causing you misery. Why dump your personal frustrations and dislike on to someone who isn't going to change his or her lifestyle or behaviors to suit you? Move on.
Nicholl McGuire shares more relationship advice at: Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate.
What appeared to be so right, ended up so wrong when the young woman finally realized she bit more off than she could chew by involving herself with an older man decades older than she. He too, thought that being with his younger partner was a bit too much for him to handle mentally and physically, yet he pressed on with the relationship anyway.
Now the pair are nothing more than periodic sex partners with very few common interests. They just don't have that "spark" for one another anymore--they have grown apart. Yet, the sex keeps them connected, at least for the time being, until one or both insults the other in a dispute, then off they go taking a sabbatical away from one another in minds and sometimes with feet too--that is until "missing you" feelings draw them back together again. On the outside looking in, witnesses might describe the couple as "pathetic, weak, dysfunctional..." but it works for them now.
If your relationship with an older or younger partner is somewhat like what has been described, then you just might want to begin to emotionally and physically set yourself free if the situation is causing you misery. Why dump your personal frustrations and dislike on to someone who isn't going to change his or her lifestyle or behaviors to suit you? Move on.
Nicholl McGuire shares more relationship advice at: Laboring to Love an Abusive Mate.
Saturday
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Fine-Looking, Funny and Unforgettable: The Special Older Man
An average looking older man might have that stunning, younger woman on his arm, but he didn't get her without being that guy who holds her interest. He might have found some ways to enhance some physical features that made the young woman say, "Well, he may not be the best-looking man, but he sure has some fine-looking qualities about him."
A man with a great personality knows how to make the young women laugh and say the kinds of things that make him unforgettable. He doesn't take himself too seriously and isn't interested in being right all the time when conversing with others. He takes criticism in stride whether helpful or not. In addition, he doesn't care to control the people who are in his presence and is careful not to hurt feelings. He prefers to win friends, rather than make enemies. For an older man, such as the one described, it may have taken him years to get it together in mind, body and spirit, but once he arrived, he took advantage of his opportunities. Now he isn't a perfect man, far from it, but he knows that in order to live his best life, he must do the kind of things that not only benefit him, but others too.
Many young men haven't quite grasped the concept of developing one's self in mind, body and spirit. They may choose one or the other, usually the part of self that is going to make them the most money, and then worry about the others when they are too old, broke, busted, and disgusted to do much. Vibrant, smart, and beautiful women look out for the man who makes them laugh, is easy on their eyes, and has some attributes about them that make him unforgettable.
The best advice a mature man could takeaway from this blog post today is, do the best you can for you (physically, mentally and spiritually). Know what your weaknesses are and address them before someone has to point them out to you. Work hard to build yourself up especially after years of being beaten down from angry people, bad investments, fast living, and a poor diet. When you are at that place in your life where you can feel good about you inside and out, then others will take notice and want to be around you.
Nicholl McGuire
A man with a great personality knows how to make the young women laugh and say the kinds of things that make him unforgettable. He doesn't take himself too seriously and isn't interested in being right all the time when conversing with others. He takes criticism in stride whether helpful or not. In addition, he doesn't care to control the people who are in his presence and is careful not to hurt feelings. He prefers to win friends, rather than make enemies. For an older man, such as the one described, it may have taken him years to get it together in mind, body and spirit, but once he arrived, he took advantage of his opportunities. Now he isn't a perfect man, far from it, but he knows that in order to live his best life, he must do the kind of things that not only benefit him, but others too.
Many young men haven't quite grasped the concept of developing one's self in mind, body and spirit. They may choose one or the other, usually the part of self that is going to make them the most money, and then worry about the others when they are too old, broke, busted, and disgusted to do much. Vibrant, smart, and beautiful women look out for the man who makes them laugh, is easy on their eyes, and has some attributes about them that make him unforgettable.
The best advice a mature man could takeaway from this blog post today is, do the best you can for you (physically, mentally and spiritually). Know what your weaknesses are and address them before someone has to point them out to you. Work hard to build yourself up especially after years of being beaten down from angry people, bad investments, fast living, and a poor diet. When you are at that place in your life where you can feel good about you inside and out, then others will take notice and want to be around you.
Nicholl McGuire
Monday
Sunday
You Can Date a Younger Woman...
Who said that because you are in your 40s, 50s, 60s plus that you can't/shouldn't/won't date anyone younger? Life just got interesting for many older men who have met younger women. Until these youthful beauties came into their lives, many settled. They went along with someone their own age or older only to regret it. Many of these men, young at heart, knew they weren't attracted to their older partners like they were younger women, but because of the people around them putting their personal beliefs off on them and the worry of "what will my parents/brothers/sisters think" they stuck a relationship out with someone they should have never dated/married.
So many older women going through a tough menopausal experience wonder why their partners are behaving rudely, acting as if they don't want to be in relationships with them anymore while never bothering to think, "My spouse has changed. He has grown weary of being in a relationship with me...He has moved on..." Instead, some women so desperate to keep a man, any man, will let them play. Play with this woman and that one until their men fall in love with their younger lovers or get them pregnant. Now what?
Any older man, rich or poor, sweet or sour can date a younger woman if he knows how to relate to her, but can these men love them--truly fall head over heels in love with them? Can you honestly treat her like a potential wife? That is the question. If worries keep you up at night, the thought that you have walked away from an older partner that you might still love or you feel uneasy about committing to a younger woman, then dating younger is just not for you. Only the strong survive in these age gap relationships. Yes, the young woman will be tempted by men her own age, older or younger. Yes, the young woman might want you to commit to her and have a family. Yes, the young woman might have daddy issues and you might be the solution to her problems. But whatever your worry/fear, you will have to override it if you want to catch and keep a quality young woman.
The age difference does play a part at some point in the relationship between younger and older. A man may not want anymore children, yet his young partner does. He may have some health issues that put a damper on their sex life, and she may be in her prime. Problems will surface, but it is up to the couple to find a way to alleviate as many challenges as possible.
Think about what you most want to do when it comes to relationships. If you are serious about being with a young woman (notice I didn't say many women), then let it be known to her and those who matter in your life.
Nicholl McGuire
So many older women going through a tough menopausal experience wonder why their partners are behaving rudely, acting as if they don't want to be in relationships with them anymore while never bothering to think, "My spouse has changed. He has grown weary of being in a relationship with me...He has moved on..." Instead, some women so desperate to keep a man, any man, will let them play. Play with this woman and that one until their men fall in love with their younger lovers or get them pregnant. Now what?
Any older man, rich or poor, sweet or sour can date a younger woman if he knows how to relate to her, but can these men love them--truly fall head over heels in love with them? Can you honestly treat her like a potential wife? That is the question. If worries keep you up at night, the thought that you have walked away from an older partner that you might still love or you feel uneasy about committing to a younger woman, then dating younger is just not for you. Only the strong survive in these age gap relationships. Yes, the young woman will be tempted by men her own age, older or younger. Yes, the young woman might want you to commit to her and have a family. Yes, the young woman might have daddy issues and you might be the solution to her problems. But whatever your worry/fear, you will have to override it if you want to catch and keep a quality young woman.
The age difference does play a part at some point in the relationship between younger and older. A man may not want anymore children, yet his young partner does. He may have some health issues that put a damper on their sex life, and she may be in her prime. Problems will surface, but it is up to the couple to find a way to alleviate as many challenges as possible.
Think about what you most want to do when it comes to relationships. If you are serious about being with a young woman (notice I didn't say many women), then let it be known to her and those who matter in your life.
Nicholl McGuire
Saturday
Age Gap Dating: Is the Young Woman the Needy and Greedy Type?
The rich gentleman was there when no one else was in the young woman's life. He gave her things that no one else had. He said things that no else ever said to her. The young woman adores her older beau. She is very appreciative of him and does her part to ensure that he will always be in her life. However, the young woman can be too needy and greedy for her own good.
Often requesting her mature mate buy her things, the young lady doesn't do too much for herself like she once did. She has grown dependent on her date to meet her needs. Once the rich professional completes his date's list, she has created yet another for him to do. By the time, the older man realizes how much he has done for his young partner, and for how long, he is already head over heels in love.
Some young women take advantage of older men because these men allow them to become dependent on them while encouraging greedy behavior. They say things like, "Get whatever you like...do you need anything else? Would you like to get another...?" They turn the appreciative, stable-minded young woman into an ungrateful, moody brat who cries when she doesn't get her way. To stop such behavior, one must teach or re-teach the young woman to become more independent. She must build a life of her own especially if she has no plans on being with her older friend for always.
The mature man might not want to keep the young woman around in the future, so it would make sense to begin to cut down or cut off the money and gifts being given to her depending on the status of the relationship and the agreement between the couple.
As with most May-December relationships, one will have to determine are the age difference challenges worth staying together. The wealthy man must take control of the need and greed before it suffocates what contentment is left in the relationship.
Nicholl McGuire
Often requesting her mature mate buy her things, the young lady doesn't do too much for herself like she once did. She has grown dependent on her date to meet her needs. Once the rich professional completes his date's list, she has created yet another for him to do. By the time, the older man realizes how much he has done for his young partner, and for how long, he is already head over heels in love.
Some young women take advantage of older men because these men allow them to become dependent on them while encouraging greedy behavior. They say things like, "Get whatever you like...do you need anything else? Would you like to get another...?" They turn the appreciative, stable-minded young woman into an ungrateful, moody brat who cries when she doesn't get her way. To stop such behavior, one must teach or re-teach the young woman to become more independent. She must build a life of her own especially if she has no plans on being with her older friend for always.
The mature man might not want to keep the young woman around in the future, so it would make sense to begin to cut down or cut off the money and gifts being given to her depending on the status of the relationship and the agreement between the couple.
As with most May-December relationships, one will have to determine are the age difference challenges worth staying together. The wealthy man must take control of the need and greed before it suffocates what contentment is left in the relationship.
Nicholl McGuire
Sunday
What He Sees in You Younger Woman
He sees your youth, beauty, and preserved innocence despite whatever abuse you have undergone. He sees the way you smile, the way you carry yourself and hears the words that come from soft lips. He loves the way you move. You are a reminder of good times in his life when responsibilities were minimal.
Young woman, you take him back to days of laughter and nights of peace. You came along after his many life storms. You brought your joy, peace, and patience with you. You showed interest when the wife of his youth stopped caring and sharing. You are something special, meant to be cherished, and never abused.
Think highly of yourself young woman, because you deserve a good man who will use his life experience to love you. He will show you things about yourself that you could never imagine. He will take you places that you have never been before. He will act like your father at times even when he doesn't mean to. You are a daughter worth his attention. You will earn a place in his life because he will need to determine what kind of woman are you.
So stand tall, young woman, know that you don't have to act like anyone, but yourself to keep a wise, older man. But what you do have to be is respectable, loving, polite, and caring. Be attentive to who you are, what you look like, and what you want out of your relationship with someone older and life.
Nicholl McGuire
Young woman, you take him back to days of laughter and nights of peace. You came along after his many life storms. You brought your joy, peace, and patience with you. You showed interest when the wife of his youth stopped caring and sharing. You are something special, meant to be cherished, and never abused.
Think highly of yourself young woman, because you deserve a good man who will use his life experience to love you. He will show you things about yourself that you could never imagine. He will take you places that you have never been before. He will act like your father at times even when he doesn't mean to. You are a daughter worth his attention. You will earn a place in his life because he will need to determine what kind of woman are you.
So stand tall, young woman, know that you don't have to act like anyone, but yourself to keep a wise, older man. But what you do have to be is respectable, loving, polite, and caring. Be attentive to who you are, what you look like, and what you want out of your relationship with someone older and life.
Nicholl McGuire
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