In the following video, you will see a teacher demonstrate a scene of physical abuse with a young actress. What is disturbing about this video is how something simple in an argument is escalated to the point that the two are arguing. Although the two are acting, there is something to be said when dating someone younger, one must have patience, be understanding that other males will be in one's life, and have much self-control.
May-December relationships are not immune to physical violence. When you find that you are becoming easily irritated over things that most wouldn't typically overreact to, there is a problem--remove yourself from the argument before you feel moved to strike your partner.
Watch the skit. Please note: the title of the video is misleading, they are acting.
Wednesday
Sunday
Talkative Younger Woman for You or Against You?
She is a sweetheart, young, vibrant, and enjoys keeping you company, but there is just one problem, she talks too much. From what she ate for breakfast to how often she visits her relatives, she always has a story that makes you feel like you are going to need to take a nap before you can concentrate on all that she has to say. The best thing you can do with your talkative girlfriend is...
1. Prepare her in advance for that future interruption you plan on using to get away and on with your day. Tell her before she starts talking, "I have XYZ time before ABC needs to be done, so tell me the story but if it goes too long, we will have to discuss part two next time."
2. Listen with eyes and ears. The more you look away, allow others to interrupt her talk with you, or tend to tasks without looking the least bit interested in what she has to say, she will keep talking and talking while making her story more interesting until she can get a rise out of you. Be attentive and only respond unless absolutely necessary, otherwise your young mate's conversation will get even more lengthy.
3. Remind her periodically during the conversation that you are listening by acknowledging her story-telling. "Yes, I hear what you are saying...really? What? And she did what?" Also, ask her if she would mind telling you the rest of the story after she explains a bit without cutting her off especially if you have reacted to what she has to say.
4. Avoid the temptation to cut her off when you haven't heard the whole story. A premature tip/advice/suggestion/criticism without knowing all the facts will possibly cause a debate which will only move her to talk more--most likely loudly and emotionally.
5. Never assume your lady friend is done talking just because she says, "Hold on for a minute I need to..."
6. Keep away from unnecessary jokes, name-calling, and other statements that don't add anything interesting to the conversation. The more you say something that has little to do with the subject matter, the more your young partner will feel like she has to explain herself. You do want her to stop talking, right?
Sometimes couples will assume that certain subject matter from previous conversations will result in an argument since the last time "she said this..." and "he said that" and on and on. However, give your young woman the benefit of the doubt simply by listening and not saying too much. Leave personal opinion out unless you feel as if she is attacking, misleading, manipulating, lying, or getting you to do something you don't want to do.
Remember, most couples end up with bad partnerships, because they simply are inattentive and lack understanding--listen before you speak, put yourself in your partner's shoes--would you want an intimate partner who is for or against you just because you talk long?
In closing, try hard not to complain about how often or long your date talks--consider it a nice that she finds you interesting enough to talk to. Find some good in conversing with your partner irregardless of how much time has passed. Part of bonding with someone is permitting her to be herself with little criticism about what she says, how she says it and how long she talks about whatever she says.
(For Christians reading this, ask God for some patience, understanding, and more love in your heart for your mate!)
Nicholl McGuire
1. Prepare her in advance for that future interruption you plan on using to get away and on with your day. Tell her before she starts talking, "I have XYZ time before ABC needs to be done, so tell me the story but if it goes too long, we will have to discuss part two next time."
2. Listen with eyes and ears. The more you look away, allow others to interrupt her talk with you, or tend to tasks without looking the least bit interested in what she has to say, she will keep talking and talking while making her story more interesting until she can get a rise out of you. Be attentive and only respond unless absolutely necessary, otherwise your young mate's conversation will get even more lengthy.
3. Remind her periodically during the conversation that you are listening by acknowledging her story-telling. "Yes, I hear what you are saying...really? What? And she did what?" Also, ask her if she would mind telling you the rest of the story after she explains a bit without cutting her off especially if you have reacted to what she has to say.
4. Avoid the temptation to cut her off when you haven't heard the whole story. A premature tip/advice/suggestion/criticism without knowing all the facts will possibly cause a debate which will only move her to talk more--most likely loudly and emotionally.
5. Never assume your lady friend is done talking just because she says, "Hold on for a minute I need to..."
6. Keep away from unnecessary jokes, name-calling, and other statements that don't add anything interesting to the conversation. The more you say something that has little to do with the subject matter, the more your young partner will feel like she has to explain herself. You do want her to stop talking, right?
Sometimes couples will assume that certain subject matter from previous conversations will result in an argument since the last time "she said this..." and "he said that" and on and on. However, give your young woman the benefit of the doubt simply by listening and not saying too much. Leave personal opinion out unless you feel as if she is attacking, misleading, manipulating, lying, or getting you to do something you don't want to do.
Remember, most couples end up with bad partnerships, because they simply are inattentive and lack understanding--listen before you speak, put yourself in your partner's shoes--would you want an intimate partner who is for or against you just because you talk long?
In closing, try hard not to complain about how often or long your date talks--consider it a nice that she finds you interesting enough to talk to. Find some good in conversing with your partner irregardless of how much time has passed. Part of bonding with someone is permitting her to be herself with little criticism about what she says, how she says it and how long she talks about whatever she says.
(For Christians reading this, ask God for some patience, understanding, and more love in your heart for your mate!)
Nicholl McGuire
Friday
Thursday
Men Dating Much-Younger Women: The Celebrity Edition (PHOTOS)
Celebs Dating Much-Younger Women an article located on Huffington Post in the Huff Post Celebrity section. Check it out!
Tuesday
The Inner Circle: A Certain Rich Man's Paradise
If you don't know anything about occult organizations, secret societies, or anything similar, then for some of you young single women, it's time for you to start researching, because you just might be tempted to be a part of something that you can't handle. The truly wealthy have connections to people, places and things that "the profane" simply aren't privy to.
A certain rich man's paradise, referring to the title of this work, describes any man who is able to mold, shape, and build up others in such a way that he controls the mind to do what he so desires. His inner circle are those associations he is connected to whether seen or unseen. A certain man meaning secret, rich (having wealth) and paradise (being able to have all his needs met--a heaven on earth to do as he wishes). Now how does a young woman fit in all of this? Well, she is nothing more than a vessel, sometimes willing, other times not so much. She parades her pretty, little self before men of influence in the hopes of having a typical rich girl's life only to find out there is more than meets the eye.
Now this rich man's inner circle is not one for righteous behaviors (at least behind closed doors). Sadistic men, sociopaths, criminals, whatever you would like to call immoral men who aren't much interested in the following like: chivalry (although the occasional door opening gesture will throw many off), respect, and a future with their play things. Rather, they are more concerned with acting out sick fantasies while hoping all willing or not-so willing will keep what happens in Vegas, so to speak, in Vegas.
Many of you who have experienced dating a man of influence saw the markings on his flesh, a statute or other symbol here and there such as: decorating his automobile, an interesting piece of artwork, and an odd keepsake at his home sitting on a table, wrapped around his finger, resting on his neck or elsewhere, but did you know what you were viewing? He may have shared some fascinating information about those relic, but then again, maybe not. Some of you may know a thing or two about a few rich men's secret lives, but don't really care, because what those wealthy members are giving you for the time being is all that really matters--that is until emotions get in the way and strange things start happening to you, now you care and hope that others will care too.
When your older man shook hands with certain individuals did you see anything strange? What about when you sat down with him at some function, did his conversation, more specifically a greeting, cause you to scratch your head? Once again meaningless to young women who want nothing more than to run away from home and live out their dreams on someone else's dime.
Sex, sex and more sex, it's unfortunate, but that's all many young "I hope to be a star one day" types are used for, because that is what they offer-- of course in the hopes that they will get a token for lying on their backs. We see evidence of one being used and abused when observing celebrities over a period of time (also think of reality show actors)--the symbols and signs say it all. But young, programmable women, that's right I said, programmable women are used in a rich man's inner circle for more than just sex. What makes them programmable? Hardship, resentment, bitterness, a need to escape reality, childhood abuse, and more.
Women who are talked into going places where the Average Joes and Janes don't frequent are told to do unspeakable things. You can learn more about this sort of behavior if you study mind control, beta sex kitten programming, sex slaves, etc. In time, a split mind and a split whatever else will be used in whatever way her master sees fit.
Now these things mentioned in this entry aren't for the weak-minded, the skeptical, or someone who has never sat down an interviewed a single individual who has been exposed to elitist groups/individuals/etc. But whatever you may or may not know is for you to ponder, question and hopefully keep yourself out of some trouble in the future--especially if you are a young woman thinking you can just date any old man, get what you want and be gone with the wind.
The "certain" rich man paid a price to either create an inner circle or be welcomed into it by others. He had to go through a series of tests, attend meetings, show he's loyal, trustworthy, and the like. The puppet will recruit others in the same way like a pimp on the street looking for a new hooker to add to the collection. The young woman unfamiliar with how the most wealthy of our land operate will walk into a trap if she isn't careful. Her new friends may look friendly, but at the end of the day not so much.
I recall a man who had been exposed to some elitists (whose occupations he didn't know since the group was secret), outside of America. He told me a story of having the privilege to be amongst a male witch and his coven. He described the scene, similar to the ritualistic scene he saw in the movie, "Eyes Wide Shut." I was taken aback. He had shared with me information about those of darkness. He went on to tell me that he followed the instructions of a god of darkness, he referred to as Lucifer, but also considered himself to be his own god. There were many who agreed with him in and out of the group, although some didn't participate in any rituals, their mannerisms and people connections said that they were definitely on board with dark supernatural influences that went beyond just meeting a young woman and "hooking up."
Some of you may be familiar with sexual abuse, sexual programming, and ritualistic abuse, you may have thought that what you heard or personally went through is a thing of the past. But as we speak, some nice looking young woman is making plans to meet someone online who has plans for her that go beyond just dinner and a movie. Of course, not all men are doing bizarre things when no one is looking, and besides, there really are some nice, wealthy men out there, I've met quite a few in my lifetime, but be wise anyway. Be aware of your surroundings, don't be quick to have sex, and avoid going to unfamiliar places.
Nicholl McGuire
A certain rich man's paradise, referring to the title of this work, describes any man who is able to mold, shape, and build up others in such a way that he controls the mind to do what he so desires. His inner circle are those associations he is connected to whether seen or unseen. A certain man meaning secret, rich (having wealth) and paradise (being able to have all his needs met--a heaven on earth to do as he wishes). Now how does a young woman fit in all of this? Well, she is nothing more than a vessel, sometimes willing, other times not so much. She parades her pretty, little self before men of influence in the hopes of having a typical rich girl's life only to find out there is more than meets the eye.
Now this rich man's inner circle is not one for righteous behaviors (at least behind closed doors). Sadistic men, sociopaths, criminals, whatever you would like to call immoral men who aren't much interested in the following like: chivalry (although the occasional door opening gesture will throw many off), respect, and a future with their play things. Rather, they are more concerned with acting out sick fantasies while hoping all willing or not-so willing will keep what happens in Vegas, so to speak, in Vegas.
Many of you who have experienced dating a man of influence saw the markings on his flesh, a statute or other symbol here and there such as: decorating his automobile, an interesting piece of artwork, and an odd keepsake at his home sitting on a table, wrapped around his finger, resting on his neck or elsewhere, but did you know what you were viewing? He may have shared some fascinating information about those relic, but then again, maybe not. Some of you may know a thing or two about a few rich men's secret lives, but don't really care, because what those wealthy members are giving you for the time being is all that really matters--that is until emotions get in the way and strange things start happening to you, now you care and hope that others will care too.
When your older man shook hands with certain individuals did you see anything strange? What about when you sat down with him at some function, did his conversation, more specifically a greeting, cause you to scratch your head? Once again meaningless to young women who want nothing more than to run away from home and live out their dreams on someone else's dime.
Sex, sex and more sex, it's unfortunate, but that's all many young "I hope to be a star one day" types are used for, because that is what they offer-- of course in the hopes that they will get a token for lying on their backs. We see evidence of one being used and abused when observing celebrities over a period of time (also think of reality show actors)--the symbols and signs say it all. But young, programmable women, that's right I said, programmable women are used in a rich man's inner circle for more than just sex. What makes them programmable? Hardship, resentment, bitterness, a need to escape reality, childhood abuse, and more.
Women who are talked into going places where the Average Joes and Janes don't frequent are told to do unspeakable things. You can learn more about this sort of behavior if you study mind control, beta sex kitten programming, sex slaves, etc. In time, a split mind and a split whatever else will be used in whatever way her master sees fit.
Now these things mentioned in this entry aren't for the weak-minded, the skeptical, or someone who has never sat down an interviewed a single individual who has been exposed to elitist groups/individuals/etc. But whatever you may or may not know is for you to ponder, question and hopefully keep yourself out of some trouble in the future--especially if you are a young woman thinking you can just date any old man, get what you want and be gone with the wind.
The "certain" rich man paid a price to either create an inner circle or be welcomed into it by others. He had to go through a series of tests, attend meetings, show he's loyal, trustworthy, and the like. The puppet will recruit others in the same way like a pimp on the street looking for a new hooker to add to the collection. The young woman unfamiliar with how the most wealthy of our land operate will walk into a trap if she isn't careful. Her new friends may look friendly, but at the end of the day not so much.
I recall a man who had been exposed to some elitists (whose occupations he didn't know since the group was secret), outside of America. He told me a story of having the privilege to be amongst a male witch and his coven. He described the scene, similar to the ritualistic scene he saw in the movie, "Eyes Wide Shut." I was taken aback. He had shared with me information about those of darkness. He went on to tell me that he followed the instructions of a god of darkness, he referred to as Lucifer, but also considered himself to be his own god. There were many who agreed with him in and out of the group, although some didn't participate in any rituals, their mannerisms and people connections said that they were definitely on board with dark supernatural influences that went beyond just meeting a young woman and "hooking up."
Some of you may be familiar with sexual abuse, sexual programming, and ritualistic abuse, you may have thought that what you heard or personally went through is a thing of the past. But as we speak, some nice looking young woman is making plans to meet someone online who has plans for her that go beyond just dinner and a movie. Of course, not all men are doing bizarre things when no one is looking, and besides, there really are some nice, wealthy men out there, I've met quite a few in my lifetime, but be wise anyway. Be aware of your surroundings, don't be quick to have sex, and avoid going to unfamiliar places.
Nicholl McGuire
Sunday
Young Woman: Are You Bargain Basement Sugar Baby or Big Buy Sugar Baby?
If you desire to be with a rich man, you might want to learn more about yourself and what you really want to do with your life to avoid being manipulated, but if you are already labeled a Sugar Baby then someone may have already conned you a time or two while you walked away from these men empty-handed. Rich men can be controlling and they can also easily put you in a category based on how you talk, walk and of course, shop around them. So which are you? A Bargain Basement Baby or a Big Buy Baby, Sugar?
Bargain Basement Sugar Baby
She might be thrifty when it comes to buying herself things out of her own money, but spend a bit more when using someone else's--does that describe you? She is not big on the name brand items, but may purchase a few high ticket items on sale every now and then. She is so grateful that a rich man cares about her that her way of showing her appreciation is to save him money. Meanwhile, she doesn't think about all of the things she may have done for him already like help with his business, have sex with him, give him companionship, etc. So while she keeps putting out whatever he wants, he rations his money. He could have given Bargain Basement Baby more, but she seems content with whatever he gives, so he has gotten the young niave woman for a bargain basement discount or a steal--depending on how desperate she is to be pampered.
Big Buy Sugar Baby
She has big bills and needs plenty of money to pay off those bills. She finds a way to get a lot for a little. She may purchase a big ticket item only to return it so she can get more money. She may ask for money from more than one partner, because she has learned, probably the hard way, that a single man just can't meet her needs with a few hundred dollar bills here and there. Big Buy Baby doesn't care too much about the future, because she is too busy putting out sex, service, or other things her rich man requests. The rich man knows that the more he wants from a pretty young woman, the more he will have to buy her. There are no discounts with Big Buy Sugar Baby.
These are only two character descriptions of many Sugar Babies that are going about our world at times careless and rebellious. Caring relatives and friends say, "Be careful. You know you don't have to do that..." But the Sugar Babies believe that what they are doing is morally okay. They see nothing wrong with a man caring for them in this way and don't believe they are prostituting themselves.
These young women want memories and money. They want to see the world, live a quality life, and not worry over how this bill and that one is going to get paid. Traditionally most of us sought men or women that we thought were a good match for us. We spent money during the dating phase, more money during the engagement, and much money once married. No one stopped many of us to say, "Why are you taking advantage of him...her...why aren't you working? Are you giving him sex? Does he have other women?" But things happen that look similar to a rich older man and sugar baby relationship. Jim finds a young woman while married to Amy, now he has to buy them both to keep their mouths shut.
What makes these young women and older men dating one another wrong in what they do to some critics is that they have no shame and they aren't interested in a committed relationship. If you put rings on the two and they vowed to love one another, no one would say too much of anything except, "Look at that old man with that baby?" As one woman told me, "To each his own."
Nicholl McGuire
Bargain Basement Sugar Baby
She might be thrifty when it comes to buying herself things out of her own money, but spend a bit more when using someone else's--does that describe you? She is not big on the name brand items, but may purchase a few high ticket items on sale every now and then. She is so grateful that a rich man cares about her that her way of showing her appreciation is to save him money. Meanwhile, she doesn't think about all of the things she may have done for him already like help with his business, have sex with him, give him companionship, etc. So while she keeps putting out whatever he wants, he rations his money. He could have given Bargain Basement Baby more, but she seems content with whatever he gives, so he has gotten the young niave woman for a bargain basement discount or a steal--depending on how desperate she is to be pampered.
Big Buy Sugar Baby
She has big bills and needs plenty of money to pay off those bills. She finds a way to get a lot for a little. She may purchase a big ticket item only to return it so she can get more money. She may ask for money from more than one partner, because she has learned, probably the hard way, that a single man just can't meet her needs with a few hundred dollar bills here and there. Big Buy Baby doesn't care too much about the future, because she is too busy putting out sex, service, or other things her rich man requests. The rich man knows that the more he wants from a pretty young woman, the more he will have to buy her. There are no discounts with Big Buy Sugar Baby.
These are only two character descriptions of many Sugar Babies that are going about our world at times careless and rebellious. Caring relatives and friends say, "Be careful. You know you don't have to do that..." But the Sugar Babies believe that what they are doing is morally okay. They see nothing wrong with a man caring for them in this way and don't believe they are prostituting themselves.
These young women want memories and money. They want to see the world, live a quality life, and not worry over how this bill and that one is going to get paid. Traditionally most of us sought men or women that we thought were a good match for us. We spent money during the dating phase, more money during the engagement, and much money once married. No one stopped many of us to say, "Why are you taking advantage of him...her...why aren't you working? Are you giving him sex? Does he have other women?" But things happen that look similar to a rich older man and sugar baby relationship. Jim finds a young woman while married to Amy, now he has to buy them both to keep their mouths shut.
What makes these young women and older men dating one another wrong in what they do to some critics is that they have no shame and they aren't interested in a committed relationship. If you put rings on the two and they vowed to love one another, no one would say too much of anything except, "Look at that old man with that baby?" As one woman told me, "To each his own."
Nicholl McGuire
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